WELL NOW
Peter JamesThat last one did a little more than expected. But oh well. I am trying to find that balance of what I can say and what I can't. I have felt that I have been making sure other people (or persons)feelings are okay and not really allowing myself to let loose, as I said. And when I finally do, it all blows up. I feel I have been turning the other cheek over and over, and now they are all gone and I want to just freaking say stuff! You know what I mean? When I think about it now, it goes back to the start of the end back in August. I tried to always do the right thing and you know give in on some things because they weren't that important. But you have to be pretty strong to be able to do that, and maybe I just am not that strong and it is just catching up with me now and I think it is boiling up anger in me. But it would be hard for any of you to tell me that it is not right for me to be angry, just try it anyway. And what is petty? Lets turn some tables and crack some whips man! He didn't rewrite what He said there. It all depends on what music I am listening to when I write though so you can disregard it all maybe.
posted by Peter James at 12:34 PM
26 Comments:
It took me a minute to get that last bit but 'He' was defending His Father's house and name. Anyway, you did stir up quite a hornet's nest didn't you. We're never told 'don't be angry' in fact we're told 'be angry but don't sin...don't let the sun go down etc etc' I don't even think that's literal...things have to be worked through...if it becomes a life long thing well it hurts you. Anyway I think you're doing great and that's not just cause I'm ... you know...your mom!
Hey Peter, I responded but it got erased, hmn...anyhow what were my points.
One: 'Petty' in my mind would happen if the two of you started a back and forth sling fest...it would be unwise for you, immature for the both of you and uncomfortablel for the rest of us. That is what I mean by petty.
two: I don't think your original blog was petty at all. You simply expressed how you felt about something you did, no names, just your opinions...veryão de cores deixa a bolsa alegre e suave, ela é feita com lona e zíper, nos detalhes, sianinha nas cores verde e rosa e pedras coloridas no zíper. Acompanha um brinco exclusivo com a estampa da bolsa.
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Hey Peter, I responded but it got erased, hmn...anyhow what were my points.
One: 'Petty' in my mind would happen if the two of you started a back and forth sling fest...it would be unwise for you, immature for the both of you and uncomfortablel for the rest of us. That is what I mean by petty.
two: I don't think your original blog was petty at all. You simply expressed how you felt about something you did, no names, just your opinions...very legal (as I learned on Dr. Phil yesterday)
three: you didn't 'cause' anything, people will react the way they do and that is the individuals choice...you are not responsible for or the cause of their reactions. Sometimes we may be a catalyst...but again...you need to be allowed to be honest about yourself, express yourself, and others have the right to disagree. Way life works. Love you Peter, praying for you. You're doing great, keep going, believe those who love and know you best.
sara
Hey Peter, I responded but it got erased, hmn...anyhow what were my points.
One: 'Petty' in my mind would happen if the two of you started a back and forth sling fest...it would be unwise for you, immature for the both of you and uncomfortablel for the rest of us. That is what I mean by petty.
two: I don't think your original blog was petty at all. You simply expressed how you felt about something you did, no names, just your opinions...very legal (as I learned on Dr. Phil yesterday)
three: you didn't 'cause' anything, people will react the way they do and that is the individuals choice...you are not responsible for or the cause of their reactions. Sometimes we may be a catalyst...but again...you need to be allowed to be honest about yourself, express yourself, and others have the right to disagree. Way life works. Love you Peter, praying for you. You're doing great, keep going, believe those who love and know you best.
sara
Sorry bout that, just really wanted to get my point across??...apparently going as far as using another language to make sure I covered all the communication bases?
Feel free to erase the duplicates :)
sara
I like the duplicates ... it made me smile. And they Were great points! Sol in his swing right now gooing at the lights on the Christmas tree. Will you come up and see them? (sol AND the lights)
I just did some more 'festive' baking ... maybe you and Jon could take a drive out here one afternoon/evening. Or just come on up by yourself! Our little town is quite lovely at during the holidays .. all lit up and stuff.
Hey, we even have hayrides going on tomorrow night (Friday) but you probly have a game. If not I'd love to see ya.
And Don't stop expressing yourself Pete. You'll rot your insides if you do. And that gets stinky.
Love you.
Amy
I don't have anything insightful, witty, or even sarcastic to add to the firestorm :) just wanted to let you know that I am reading your blog and interested in how you're doing.
Keeping up with you - keeping praying- know someone who went thru similar situation
You do have ever right to be angry but seriously the way you acted was uncalled for and immature and I hope you can grow up eventually and leave her alone. All you did was make her realize that she was smart to leave...good job on that one!
Doesn't seem like the anonymous commenter who wishes you would grow up and leave Kate alone realizes it is Her who keeps contacting YOU. (not the other way around)
Oh well, not every one will know the truth I guess.
Or that you have put up with many rants and raves, swearing and threats and pretty much constant blame for the entire thing it seems? And yes, if you're gonna post, be fair and give a name.
sara
Oh right leave a name so the whole family can start harassing everyone else too? Seriously, instead of telling her to get therapy take a look at yourselves before you judge others. I think she is the sanest person out of you all!
Pretty pathetic excuse.
And pretty ignorant (possibly willfully)to boot.
Afraid of all us 'family' ganging up or 'harassing'? Through a blog???? Give me a break.
sara
In fact if 'anonamous' is willing to make a blanket statement about a group which happens to include me...that person is now insulting and judging me without being willing to take it up with me face to face, one on one and that is, as far as I can tell, underhanded and cowardly. Never have I harassed anyone. But I will stand up for what I believe is right, especially if ASKED for my thoughts, and if they differ from the one I talk to, that is o.k. with me, I don't mind discussion and I will certainly do it as myself, Sara. Because I feel it is fair for those I share with to share back. I think most people would appreciate the same.
Without anger I'm speaking here, but definitely with some bewilderment!
Oh, my email is jsspaterson@yahoo.ca if anyone would like to take up their issues with me more personally. And I can give my phone number too if that is better.
"So The whole family can start harassing everyone else too?" Lets get our facts straight ... out of 8 immediate and 14 extended (spouses, nieces, nephews etc) only 3 people wrote to Kate. We did not 'harass' her but shared our shock over the situation and yes, our disappointment and anger at how Pete was being treated. Our desire was to come to understanding by writing directly to her and asking for some clarity hoping she would share with us her reasons for doing what she was doing. She opted not to resond and we respected her decision and did not continue to write. If you would like to take up your issues with us and how we have behaved in this situation I would be more than happy to communicate directly with you via email or phone. My email is jameskid3@yahoo.ca My name is Amy and I am Pete's sister. If not, your comments carry no weight or integrity and there will be no need to respond to them anymore.
After posting my last comment I got to thinking that a more helpful and appropriate thing to do would have been to call Kate directly to verify whether or not she thought I was harassing her ... not write back and forth to a stranger about it on Pete's blog. So I did. I apologize to all those who may have been uncomfortable with my postings. I really don't think this is the place for that kind of thing and I will try hard not to do it again. Thanks.
Peter I know that this problem isnt going to go away anytime soon... but just a question she says that u didnt put up a struggle when she wanted to end it. heres the question: why would you? if she wanted to get out the relationship after 2 months and u put up a struggle and she stayed what would you have to sacrifice next time to get her to stay? and for everything else. nobody said your perfect we all know that we all fault. your doing a good job at handling this.
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